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People Pleasers, Boundaries, and Overthinking Girlies
Girl, we need to talk. People-pleasing, yeah, I’m dragging myself into this convo too. Look, I’ve been that person, and let’s face it, a part of me will probably always want to make everyone happy. But here’s the thing: we’re not here to run ourselves ragged just to keep the peace. Awareness is step one,
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Why Aries Came Into Your Life (and What They’re Here to Teach You)
Welcome to the first chapter of my astrology series! I’m diving deep into why each zodiac sign makes an appearance in your life and what cosmic lessons they’re here to teach. We’re kicking it off with Aries, the bold, fiery pioneers of the zodiac. And let me just say, as an Aries myself, I know
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Mars Retrograde in Cancer: Embrace the Chaos, Sweetheart
Alright, listen up. Mars has gone retrograde in Cancer, and if you’re feeling like the universe hit the pause button on your energy and motivation, you’re not alone. This cosmic event started on December 30, 2024, and it’ll stick around until March 10, 2025. So yes, we’ve got a few months of this. But before
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Hang On, Princess: The Tea on the Hanged Man + The Empress Combo
This card combo that’s been serving big vibes lately: The Hanged Man and The Empress. If you’ve ever pulled these two together, you already know they’re saying something major. But if you haven’t? Let me put you on to the magic of this combo. It’s a little bit of patience, a sprinkle of abundance, and
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The Freedom of Being Loved Just as You Are
I swear, I never planned on writing this. It just… happened. Some random night, and I ended up sitting in front of my phone typing away like a whole-ass poet or something. And for a second, I thought, nah, I’ll just keep this to myself but then I thought, maybe it’s worth sharing. Because sometimes,
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Venus in Pisces: Love, Art, and Maybe a Few Tears
Grab your favorite drink, babe, because it’s time to talk about the vibe shift we’ve all been waiting for: Venus, the planet of love, beauty, and the finer things in life, is taking a deep dive into the dreamy waters of Pisces. This transit starts on January 2, 2025, and keeps the romance alive until
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Letting Go, But First, Let Me Write a Damn Song About It
Alright, let’s talk. If you’ve ever found yourself typing out a love song or let’s be real, a full-blown emotional monologue on your phone’s notes app, then you get it. You’re tangled up in your own head, overthinking every little moment, reading into every word, convincing yourself that what you’re feeling is either the start
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Consent, Courage, and Healing: The Story I Needed to Share
First times, the ones that leave a mark, for better or worse. People love to say your first time should be all candles, love, and soft music. But let’s be honest: life isn’t a movie, and for some of us, it’s far from magical. My first time wasn’t romantic or beautiful. It wasn’t even consensual.
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Delulu with Self-Awareness: How to Be Realistic, But Also a Little Delusional
Let’s talk about something that’s been on my mind lately, self-awareness. But not the boring, dry, “be aware of yourself and your surroundings” kind of self-awareness. No, I’m talking about the juicy kind. The delulu kind. You know what I mean. That sweet spot where you know you have room to grow, but you’re also
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