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If They Won’t Change, It’s Time to Change Who You’re With
I’ve heard it too many times: “Maybe he’ll change.” Girl, no, the fuck he won’t. People don’t change unless they want to. You can’t make someone become a better version of themselves just because you think they should. Change has to come from within. If someone isn’t willing to do that work on their own,…
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Spontaneous Love Thoughts Coming Your Way
Okay, so this one wasn’t exactly planned. It’s one of those random thoughts that just popped into my head, and I figured, why not write about it? I’ve been thinking a lot about love lately, how it looks for other people versus how it looks for me. So, here I am, sitting down to share…
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Love Like You Mean It, Live Like You Don’t Care
I just watched My Old Ass on Prime Video, starring Aubrey Plaza, and it hit me with something so simple, yet so important, sometimes, you just have to be young and dumb. The movie is about a woman in her 30s who feels stuck in life, but through a series of events, she reconnects with…
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The Nice Guy Is Not Always the Nice Guy: Repeat After Me Now
We’ve all heard it before: He’s a nice guy. The one who always listens, always understands, always seems to have the right words. The guy who texts back fast, who shows up when you need him, who does things without being asked. But let’s be real, sometimes, the nice guy is just a well-disguised villain.…
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Fuck Perfect: Life’s Messy, and Maybe that’s Okay
Lately, I’ve been caught in a storm of my own negative thoughts. It’s heavy, like carrying a bag you didn’t even pack yourself. Sometimes, it feels like I can’t take it anymore. I keep asking myself: Where is the old, positive version of me? Who the fuck am I right now? Why are all these…
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What If I just…Learning to Love Myself in the Chaos
Let’s talk about something real. If you’ve read my blogs before, you probably already know that writing is my way of sorting through the mess in my head. Sometimes, it turns into something deeper, like a song. And that’s exactly what happened here. This wasn’t planned, wasn’t even thought out. It just came out one…
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What I Thought My Mind Was Telling Me (Or Maybe Not?)
Dreams are such strange things. Sometimes, they feel like they’re just little random flashes in your mind. Other times, it seems like they’re trying to tell you something big. It’s something you need to hear. Yet, you don’t always want to face it. A few days ago, I had one of those dreams. It was…
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Either You Like Them or You Don’t
This thought hit me one day out of nowhere: I’m done with the guessing game. I’m not doing it anymore. It’s simple, you either like someone, or you don’t. There’s no in-between. If you truly like someone, you won’t be stuck in a loop of “He’s nice, but…” or “She’s great, but…” There’s no “but.”…
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Fuck Those Relationship Rules, Just Be Yourself
So, I was scrolling through TikTok one day, listening to yet another “relationship expert” going on about all these so-called “rules” for love. And you know what hit me? Fuck those rules. Just be yourself. Seriously. Why the hell are we making love such a complicated game? You’ve heard the rules, right? “Don’t text back…
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People Pleasers, Boundaries, and Overthinking Girlies
Girl, we need to talk. People-pleasing, yeah, I’m dragging myself into this convo too. Look, I’ve been that person, and let’s face it, a part of me will probably always want to make everyone happy. But here’s the thing: we’re not here to run ourselves ragged just to keep the peace. Awareness is step one,…
