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The Nice Guy Is Not Always the Nice Guy: Repeat After Me Now
We’ve all heard it before: He’s a nice guy. The one who always listens, always understands, always seems to have the right words. The guy who texts back fast, who shows up when you need him, who does things without being asked. But let’s be real, sometimes, the nice guy is just a well-disguised villain.…
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Fuck Perfect: Life’s Messy, and Maybe that’s Okay
Lately, I’ve been caught in a storm of my own negative thoughts. It’s heavy, like carrying a bag you didn’t even pack yourself. Sometimes, it feels like I can’t take it anymore. I keep asking myself: Where is the old, positive version of me? Who the fuck am I right now? Why are all these…
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What If I just…Learning to Love Myself in the Chaos
Let’s talk about something real. If you’ve read my blogs before, you probably already know that writing is my way of sorting through the mess in my head. Sometimes, it turns into something deeper, like a song. And that’s exactly what happened here. This wasn’t planned, wasn’t even thought out. It just came out one…
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What I Thought My Mind Was Telling Me (Or Maybe Not?)
Dreams are such strange things. Sometimes, they feel like they’re just little random flashes in your mind. Other times, it seems like they’re trying to tell you something big. It’s something you need to hear. Yet, you don’t always want to face it. A few days ago, I had one of those dreams. It was…
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Either You Like Them or You Don’t
This thought hit me one day out of nowhere: I’m done with the guessing game. I’m not doing it anymore. It’s simple, you either like someone, or you don’t. There’s no in-between. If you truly like someone, you won’t be stuck in a loop of “He’s nice, but…” or “She’s great, but…” There’s no “but.”…
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Fuck Those Relationship Rules, Just Be Yourself
So, I was scrolling through TikTok one day, listening to yet another “relationship expert” going on about all these so-called “rules” for love. And you know what hit me? Fuck those rules. Just be yourself. Seriously. Why the hell are we making love such a complicated game? You’ve heard the rules, right? “Don’t text back…
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People Pleasers, Boundaries, and Overthinking Girlies
Girl, we need to talk. People-pleasing, yeah, I’m dragging myself into this convo too. Look, I’ve been that person, and let’s face it, a part of me will probably always want to make everyone happy. But here’s the thing: we’re not here to run ourselves ragged just to keep the peace. Awareness is step one,…
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The Freedom of Being Loved Just as You Are
I swear, I never planned on writing this. It just… happened. Some random night, and I ended up sitting in front of my phone typing away like a whole-ass poet or something. And for a second, I thought, nah, I’ll just keep this to myself but then I thought, maybe it’s worth sharing. Because sometimes,…
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Letting Go, But First, Let Me Write a Damn Song About It
Alright, let’s talk. If you’ve ever found yourself typing out a love song or let’s be real, a full-blown emotional monologue on your phone’s notes app, then you get it. You’re tangled up in your own head, overthinking every little moment, reading into every word, convincing yourself that what you’re feeling is either the start…
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Consent, Courage, and Healing: The Story I Needed to Share
First times, the ones that leave a mark, for better or worse. People love to say your first time should be all candles, love, and soft music. But let’s be honest: life isn’t a movie, and for some of us, it’s far from magical. My first time wasn’t romantic or beautiful. It wasn’t even consensual.…
