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The Beauty of Healing
Healing is such a long process. It takes time, pressure, and a real desire to change. There is no finish line as long as you’re still breathing. We’re all human, which means we’re going to mess up and learn from it, again and again. Life keeps testing us, whether you call it the universe, fate,…
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What If I just…Learning to Love Myself in the Chaos
Let’s talk about something real. If you’ve read my blogs before, you probably already know that writing is my way of sorting through the mess in my head. Sometimes, it turns into something deeper, like a song. And that’s exactly what happened here. This wasn’t planned, wasn’t even thought out. It just came out one…
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What I Thought My Mind Was Telling Me (Or Maybe Not?)
Dreams are such strange things. Sometimes, they feel like they’re just little random flashes in your mind. Other times, it seems like they’re trying to tell you something big. It’s something you need to hear. Yet, you don’t always want to face it. A few days ago, I had one of those dreams. It was…
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Either You Like Them or You Don’t
This thought hit me one day out of nowhere: I’m done with the guessing game. I’m not doing it anymore. It’s simple, you either like someone, or you don’t. There’s no in-between. If you truly like someone, you won’t be stuck in a loop of “He’s nice, but…” or “She’s great, but…” There’s no “but.”…
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Fuck Those Relationship Rules, Just Be Yourself
So, I was scrolling through TikTok one day, listening to yet another “relationship expert” going on about all these so-called “rules” for love. And you know what hit me? Fuck those rules. Just be yourself. Seriously. Why the hell are we making love such a complicated game? You’ve heard the rules, right? “Don’t text back…
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People Pleasers, Boundaries, and Overthinking Girlies
Girl, we need to talk. People-pleasing, yeah, I’m dragging myself into this convo too. Look, I’ve been that person, and let’s face it, a part of me will probably always want to make everyone happy. But here’s the thing: we’re not here to run ourselves ragged just to keep the peace. Awareness is step one,…
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The Freedom of Being Loved Just as You Are
I swear, I never planned on writing this. It just… happened. Some random night, and I ended up sitting in front of my phone typing away like a whole-ass poet or something. And for a second, I thought, nah, I’ll just keep this to myself but then I thought, maybe it’s worth sharing. Because sometimes,…
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Letting Go, But First, Let Me Write a Damn Song About It
Alright, let’s talk. If you’ve ever found yourself typing out a love song or let’s be real, a full-blown emotional monologue on your phone’s notes app, then you get it. You’re tangled up in your own head, overthinking every little moment, reading into every word, convincing yourself that what you’re feeling is either the start…
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Consent, Courage, and Healing: The Story I Needed to Share
First times, the ones that leave a mark, for better or worse. People love to say your first time should be all candles, love, and soft music. But let’s be honest: life isn’t a movie, and for some of us, it’s far from magical. My first time wasn’t romantic or beautiful. It wasn’t even consensual.…
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Delulu with Self-Awareness: How to Be Realistic, But Also a Little Delusional
Let’s talk about something that’s been on my mind lately, self-awareness. But not the boring, dry, “be aware of yourself and your surroundings” kind of self-awareness. No, I’m talking about the juicy kind. The delulu kind. You know what I mean. That sweet spot where you know you have room to grow, but you’re also…
