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Fuck Perfect: Life’s Messy, and Maybe that’s Okay
Lately, I’ve been caught in a storm of my own negative thoughts. It’s heavy, like carrying a bag you didn’t even pack yourself. Sometimes, it feels like I can’t take it anymore. I keep asking myself: Where is the old, positive version of me? Who the fuck am I right now? Why are all these…
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What If I just…Learning to Love Myself in the Chaos
Let’s talk about something real. If you’ve read my blogs before, you probably already know that writing is my way of sorting through the mess in my head. Sometimes, it turns into something deeper, like a song. And that’s exactly what happened here. This wasn’t planned, wasn’t even thought out. It just came out one…
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What I Thought My Mind Was Telling Me (Or Maybe Not?)
Dreams are such strange things. Sometimes, they feel like they’re just little random flashes in your mind. Other times, it seems like they’re trying to tell you something big. It’s something you need to hear. Yet, you don’t always want to face it. A few days ago, I had one of those dreams. It was…
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Why Aries Came Into Your Life (and What They’re Here to Teach You)
Welcome to the first chapter of my astrology series! I’m diving deep into why each zodiac sign makes an appearance in your life and what cosmic lessons they’re here to teach. We’re kicking it off with Aries, the bold, fiery pioneers of the zodiac. And let me just say, as an Aries myself, I know…
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The Freedom of Being Loved Just as You Are
I swear, I never planned on writing this. It just… happened. Some random night, and I ended up sitting in front of my phone typing away like a whole-ass poet or something. And for a second, I thought, nah, I’ll just keep this to myself but then I thought, maybe it’s worth sharing. Because sometimes,…
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Letting Go, But First, Let Me Write a Damn Song About It
Alright, let’s talk. If you’ve ever found yourself typing out a love song or let’s be real, a full-blown emotional monologue on your phone’s notes app, then you get it. You’re tangled up in your own head, overthinking every little moment, reading into every word, convincing yourself that what you’re feeling is either the start…
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Delulu with Self-Awareness: How to Be Realistic, But Also a Little Delusional
Let’s talk about something that’s been on my mind lately, self-awareness. But not the boring, dry, “be aware of yourself and your surroundings” kind of self-awareness. No, I’m talking about the juicy kind. The delulu kind. You know what I mean. That sweet spot where you know you have room to grow, but you’re also…
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Don’t Take Anything Personally: The Little Thought That Changed My Life
I used to take everything personally. A weird tone in a text? “Oh no, they hate me.” Someone didn’t hold the door for me? “What did I do wrong?!” A random look from a stranger? “Is there something on my face?” You get the vibe. I had this magical ability to turn every small interaction…
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The Fear of Being Ordinary (But It’s Actually Okay)
Okay, here’s a thought I’ve been chewing on. Deep, existential vibes incoming. So, I’ve always had this sneaky little fear buried deep down inside me. You know, that fear that if someone gets to know me better, like really know me, will they love me more? Or will they realize that I’m just another person,…
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Not Every Thought Needs a Response
So there I was, doing what I do best, scrolling through my phone (obviously), when this thought hit me like a ton of bricks: not every thought needs a response. I know it sounds small, but as I was typing this into my notes app, I realized I really do need a wake-up call sometimes.…