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Dealing with Narcissists Without Losing Your Mind (Or Your Sanity)
I’ve always been someone who values deep connections. I love meaningful conversations, relationships that feel like home, and people who make life richer. There’s something beautiful about feeling truly seen and understood. But let’s be real, not everyone we meet has good intentions. Some people drain us, manipulate us, and twist everything to be about…
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You vs. You: The Only Comparison That Matters
Of course, I compare myself. Everyone does. It’s not like we wake up every day feeling 100% confident, thinking we’re the best version of ourselves all the time. Some days, there’s this voice in our heads telling us we’re not enough, that we’re falling behind, that someone else is doing it better. And honestly? That’s…
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If They Won’t Change, It’s Time to Change Who You’re With
I’ve heard it too many times: “Maybe he’ll change.” Girl, no, the fuck he won’t. People don’t change unless they want to. You can’t make someone become a better version of themselves just because you think they should. Change has to come from within. If someone isn’t willing to do that work on their own,…
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Spontaneous Love Thoughts Coming Your Way
Okay, so this one wasn’t exactly planned. It’s one of those random thoughts that just popped into my head, and I figured, why not write about it? I’ve been thinking a lot about love lately, how it looks for other people versus how it looks for me. So, here I am, sitting down to share…
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Love Like You Mean It, Live Like You Don’t Care
I just watched My Old Ass on Prime Video, starring Aubrey Plaza, and it hit me with something so simple, yet so important, sometimes, you just have to be young and dumb. The movie is about a woman in her 30s who feels stuck in life, but through a series of events, she reconnects with…
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The Nice Guy Is Not Always the Nice Guy: Repeat After Me Now
We’ve all heard it before: He’s a nice guy. The one who always listens, always understands, always seems to have the right words. The guy who texts back fast, who shows up when you need him, who does things without being asked. But let’s be real, sometimes, the nice guy is just a well-disguised villain.…
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Fuck Perfect: Life’s Messy, and Maybe that’s Okay
Lately, I’ve been caught in a storm of my own negative thoughts. It’s heavy, like carrying a bag you didn’t even pack yourself. Sometimes, it feels like I can’t take it anymore. I keep asking myself: Where is the old, positive version of me? Who the fuck am I right now? Why are all these…
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Abortion Is a Choice, Not a Crime
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about abortion. It’s honestly heartbreaking to know that in some countries, it’s still illegal. Like, why do men get to decide what a woman should do with her own body? How is that fair? The fact that we’re still having this debate in 2025 is exhausting. I live in…
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What If I just…Learning to Love Myself in the Chaos
Let’s talk about something real. If you’ve read my blogs before, you probably already know that writing is my way of sorting through the mess in my head. Sometimes, it turns into something deeper, like a song. And that’s exactly what happened here. This wasn’t planned, wasn’t even thought out. It just came out one…
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What I Thought My Mind Was Telling Me (Or Maybe Not?)
Dreams are such strange things. Sometimes, they feel like they’re just little random flashes in your mind. Other times, it seems like they’re trying to tell you something big. It’s something you need to hear. Yet, you don’t always want to face it. A few days ago, I had one of those dreams. It was…
