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I’m Not Fucking Around and Finding Out Anymore
Maybe I’m getting older, or maybe my brain finally finished developing, whatever it is, I like it. It’s like a switch flipped in my mind, and suddenly, I see things differently. I’m more aware, more intentional, and honestly, a lot more at peace with myself. I used to be all about “fuck around and find…
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The Art of Letting Go and Loving Yourself
I recently came across a video Let Them from Looking at Life with Dee on YouTube. If you’ve seen it, you probably know which one I’m talking about, the old lady reading a piece written by Cassie Phillips. The idea is simple yet powerful: Let them. “If someone chooses something or someone over you, let…
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Love, Heartbreak, and a New Chapter at 26
Ah man, 25 and heartbroken. Kinda funny when you think about it. I mean, it’s not like I’m old, but heartbreak doesn’t really care about that, does it? It just keeps showing up in different ways at different times, and no matter how many times we go through it, it always hits a little different.…
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Love, Fear, and Everything In Between
I wrote this in my diary the day before my period, so let’s just say my PMS might have been talking. But even if it did, that doesn’t make these feelings any less real. Emotions hit differently at times, and that’s okay. If something here resonates with you, maybe it’s not just me. Maybe it’s…
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Dealing with Narcissists Without Losing Your Mind (Or Your Sanity)
I’ve always been someone who values deep connections. I love meaningful conversations, relationships that feel like home, and people who make life richer. There’s something beautiful about feeling truly seen and understood. But let’s be real, not everyone we meet has good intentions. Some people drain us, manipulate us, and twist everything to be about…
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You vs. You: The Only Comparison That Matters
Of course, I compare myself. Everyone does. It’s not like we wake up every day feeling 100% confident, thinking we’re the best version of ourselves all the time. Some days, there’s this voice in our heads telling us we’re not enough, that we’re falling behind, that someone else is doing it better. And honestly? That’s…
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If They Won’t Change, It’s Time to Change Who You’re With
I’ve heard it too many times: “Maybe he’ll change.” Girl, no, the fuck he won’t. People don’t change unless they want to. You can’t make someone become a better version of themselves just because you think they should. Change has to come from within. If someone isn’t willing to do that work on their own,…
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Spontaneous Love Thoughts Coming Your Way
Okay, so this one wasn’t exactly planned. It’s one of those random thoughts that just popped into my head, and I figured, why not write about it? I’ve been thinking a lot about love lately, how it looks for other people versus how it looks for me. So, here I am, sitting down to share…
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Love Like You Mean It, Live Like You Don’t Care
I just watched My Old Ass on Prime Video, starring Aubrey Plaza, and it hit me with something so simple, yet so important, sometimes, you just have to be young and dumb. The movie is about a woman in her 30s who feels stuck in life, but through a series of events, she reconnects with…
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The Nice Guy Is Not Always the Nice Guy: Repeat After Me Now
We’ve all heard it before: He’s a nice guy. The one who always listens, always understands, always seems to have the right words. The guy who texts back fast, who shows up when you need him, who does things without being asked. But let’s be real, sometimes, the nice guy is just a well-disguised villain.…
