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Aries Season: Time to Set the World on Fire (In the Best Way)
It’s that time of the year again, Aries season! And this one is extra special because, well, it’s my season. Aries season runs from March 20 to April 19, marking a time of renewal, energy, and fresh beginnings. The energy shifts the moment Aries takes over, bringing a spark of excitement, motivation, and a little bit of chaos. Whether you’re ready or not, things are about to get real. Aries…
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Solo Date, A Few Things on My Mind
Two days ago, I decided to take myself on a date. It had been a while since I went out alone, and I figured it was about time. At first, I was nervous, so much so that I ended up calling a couple of friends just to hear their voices. As soon as I hung up, I realized something. I actually do enjoy my own company. I’m good at hanging…
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True Confidence is About Feeling Good in Your Own Skin
Confidence is not about being better than anyone else. It’s about knowing I look good and recognizing that everyone else looks good too. If confidence makes you put others down, that’s not confidence, that’s narcissism. And that’s also the behavior of something people are talking about online these days: the “Pick Me Girl.” I’ve been thinking a lot about confidence and how it connects to the way we see ourselves…
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Slow Down! Mercury Retrograde & the Eclipse Are Shaking Things Up
If you’ve ever felt like life hits the rewind button just to mess with you, welcome to Mercury retrograde. And not just any Mercury retrograde, this time, it’s in Aries. Buckle up because from March 15 to April 7, 2025, we’re in for a ride full of fiery misunderstandings, impulsive texts we shouldn’t send, and plans that seem to fall apart at the worst possible moment. But that’s not all.…
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I’m Not Fucking Around and Finding Out Anymore
Maybe I’m getting older, or maybe my brain finally finished developing, whatever it is, I like it. It’s like a switch flipped in my mind, and suddenly, I see things differently. I’m more aware, more intentional, and honestly, a lot more at peace with myself. I used to be all about “fuck around and find out.” And honestly? I think everyone should have that phase in their twenties. It’s a…
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Venus Retrograde in Aries: Love, Chaos, and That One Text You Shouldn’t Send
Alright, everyone, buckle up! Venus is retrograde in Aries, and things are about to get intense. This isn’t your usual Venus-in-Aries energy of chasing love, money, and excitement. When Venus moves backward, it forces us to slow down, reflect, and rethink what (or who) we truly desire. If you’ve been running on impulse, get ready for a reality check. This retrograde will challenge our relationships, finances, and self-worth, making us…
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The Art of Letting Go and Loving Yourself
I recently came across a video Let Them from Looking at Life with Dee on YouTube. If you’ve seen it, you probably know which one I’m talking about, the old lady reading a piece written by Cassie Phillips. The idea is simple yet powerful: Let them. “If someone chooses something or someone over you, let them. If they judge or misunderstand you, let them. If they’re okay with never seeing…
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Love, Heartbreak, and a New Chapter at 26
Ah man, 25 and heartbroken. Kinda funny when you think about it. I mean, it’s not like I’m old, but heartbreak doesn’t really care about that, does it? It just keeps showing up in different ways at different times, and no matter how many times we go through it, it always hits a little different. Some people drown in it, some pretend they’re fine, some turn it into art, and…
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Love, Fear, and Everything In Between
I wrote this in my diary the day before my period, so let’s just say my PMS might have been talking. But even if it did, that doesn’t make these feelings any less real. Emotions hit differently at times, and that’s okay. If something here resonates with you, maybe it’s not just me. Maybe it’s all of us. None of us have life completely figured out, and maybe we’re not…
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Dealing with Narcissists Without Losing Your Mind (Or Your Sanity)
I’ve always been someone who values deep connections. I love meaningful conversations, relationships that feel like home, and people who make life richer. There’s something beautiful about feeling truly seen and understood. But let’s be real, not everyone we meet has good intentions. Some people drain us, manipulate us, and twist everything to be about them. And the scariest part? You often don’t see it coming until you’re already caught…
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