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Solo Date, A Few Things on My Mind
Two days ago, I decided to take myself on a date. It had been a while since I went out alone, and I figured it was about time. At first, I was nervous, so much so that I ended up calling a couple of friends just to hear their voices. As soon as I hung…
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True Confidence is About Feeling Good in Your Own Skin
Confidence is not about being better than anyone else. It’s about knowing I look good and recognizing that everyone else looks good too. If confidence makes you put others down, that’s not confidence, that’s narcissism. And that’s also the behavior of something people are talking about online these days: the “Pick Me Girl.” I’ve been…
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The Art of Letting Go and Loving Yourself
I recently came across a video Let Them from Looking at Life with Dee on YouTube. If you’ve seen it, you probably know which one I’m talking about, the old lady reading a piece written by Cassie Phillips. The idea is simple yet powerful: Let them. “If someone chooses something or someone over you, let…
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Love, Heartbreak, and a New Chapter at 26
Ah man, 25 and heartbroken. Kinda funny when you think about it. I mean, it’s not like I’m old, but heartbreak doesn’t really care about that, does it? It just keeps showing up in different ways at different times, and no matter how many times we go through it, it always hits a little different.…
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Love, Fear, and Everything In Between
I wrote this in my diary the day before my period, so let’s just say my PMS might have been talking. But even if it did, that doesn’t make these feelings any less real. Emotions hit differently at times, and that’s okay. If something here resonates with you, maybe it’s not just me. Maybe it’s…
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Pisces Season 2025: Get Ready to Swim or Sink?
Pisces season is here, and let’s be real, it’s giving main character energy, but in a ‘lost in a daydream while forgetting to answer texts’ kind of way. From February 18 to March 20, 2025, we’re floating (or maybe drowning) in deep emotions, creativity bursts, and that weird feeling of ‘Wait… what am I even…
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You vs. You: The Only Comparison That Matters
Of course, I compare myself. Everyone does. It’s not like we wake up every day feeling 100% confident, thinking we’re the best version of ourselves all the time. Some days, there’s this voice in our heads telling us we’re not enough, that we’re falling behind, that someone else is doing it better. And honestly? That’s…
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If They Won’t Change, It’s Time to Change Who You’re With
I’ve heard it too many times: “Maybe he’ll change.” Girl, no, the fuck he won’t. People don’t change unless they want to. You can’t make someone become a better version of themselves just because you think they should. Change has to come from within. If someone isn’t willing to do that work on their own,…
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Spontaneous Love Thoughts Coming Your Way
Okay, so this one wasn’t exactly planned. It’s one of those random thoughts that just popped into my head, and I figured, why not write about it? I’ve been thinking a lot about love lately, how it looks for other people versus how it looks for me. So, here I am, sitting down to share…
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Love Like You Mean It, Live Like You Don’t Care
I just watched My Old Ass on Prime Video, starring Aubrey Plaza, and it hit me with something so simple, yet so important, sometimes, you just have to be young and dumb. The movie is about a woman in her 30s who feels stuck in life, but through a series of events, she reconnects with…
